Patience is something some people naturally have and some don’t – and if they want to learn how to be patient, it’s an art that can be learned, indeed!
People have characteristics, not flaws. It takes years to annoy me (no joke) for me to say “something”, what often leads to feeling used, insulted and hurt, but I prefer so than being aggressive. Patience leads to happiness and peace. So, how to be patient?
* Sometimes we all have problems. Avoid being judgmental – try to understand people’s reasons to “this and that”, including YOUR reasons. We ALL have phases and changes;
* Pain and differences have purposes. They push us to growth. People are different and entitled to their own opinions. Exchanging is good, we learn through this!
* “They’re dumb-superficial-bossy-egocentric” – recognize these thoughts? It’s your mind causing discomfort, not others. We put others in categories we don’t like and we feel discomfort. Changing thoughts takes time. We won’t please everybody and should be prepared for their bad thoughts about us, too. Give less importance to what they think. It’s their problem. Not yours.
Now, the weekly outfit